Some women choose to avoid this situation altogether, vowing to only date men who are free and clear.
However, sometimes the right man comes along and, even though he is still technically married, you wish to pursue a relationship with him.
He used to a lot nicer to me, at least butter me and sweeten me up with lots of texts and phone calls the week leading up to a meet up and then afterwards its like he would;t have the time of day for me.
Then the last few times we met up he didn't even bother with the trying to sweeten me up before hand, its like he couldn't be bothered anymore, i wasnt even worth that.
I am struggling to get him out of my head and stop crying over the situation. I stayed away from any intimate contact with him for a couple of months but we have a strong mutual attraction and we ended up back in bed. I am aware that there are PLENTY of eligible SINGLE men who have so much to offer..including crazy drama. I have chosen not to ask questions and just give him the space he requested.
I was happy before I met him, and he came into my life leading me to believe that we would fall in love and end up together forever and now I know that he never really wanted me.
Since I told him I had to break up I have contacted him like the stupid fool that I am, he has replied nicely, but then I texted back that I miss him and I didnt get a reply. I thought I was the one who could get him through it and that once he was done we would live happily ever after NOT!!
I guess he isnt trying to lead me on....anymore that is. that should tell you something especially how he is acting towards you now. For all you ladies out there even thinking of getting involved w/ a married man going through a divorce... Unhappiness is all that resulted from the relationship.
Imagine what kind of issues he has in general when it comes to the opposite sex. I am really struggling to stop crying and not feel like a failure. I'm not sure it would be healthy for me to pursue a friendship with him, any thoughts???? You will feel it when you are not emotionally attached to him and his decisions.
I just didn't see it coming, I really thought he was into me. I am a guy and have never been in his situation, but I can even tell that he is pushing you away prematurely because of his own confusions and inabilities to committ right now...because of his divorce.