I ask God everyday to be accepting, understanding, and patient because he has children and an ex wife. I respect what he is going through and what he wants.
I've been dating one with 2 children (6 and 8) for almost 2 1/2 months.I m dating a divorced man with 3 kids, the divorce has been final for more than a year now and they have been separated for 3years before the divorce was final. He is a wonderful man caring and loving, but i always think myself what am I getting myself into??He always tells me he is happy with me and its all because of me.They signed the papers 4 months ago, but he tells me they have not been a "couple" for years. I'm thinking, okay, that should be enough time for him to get settled into this new life and for us to get to know each other really well.In Italy, when you sign papers for a divorce, you are legally separated and can date other people, but the actual divorce is not until 3 years later. By that time, I would have met his children and family and maybe things would be okay, if we ever decide to get married.