That’s not to say I wouldn’t have enjoyed the company of an oil-man, but his particular vocation comforted me. On the car ride home, I left the windows down and asked Donny to put on some music.
He only went because of the “free beer.” The universe can be pretty mysterious, I thought. I’m not one to judge people on political leanings, but the fact he made a career helping the disadvantaged made me feel safe in his home.
Anyone who’s fallen in love with someone of a different race knows the feeling when you first meet his or her family. You want to hide behind a door, yet still peak out to see what’s going on. On the one hand I didn’t want to appear resistant to meeting his family. I thought to myself, “I’m already the black girl.’” I knew it was one thing to be told your son is dating a black girl, but it was another to actually see his arms around her, to see him kiss her, to hear him say, “I love you.” “Baby, are you sure it’s the right time? About the Author: Guest Contributor Meet Mindful is the first online dating site to serve the mindful lifestyle.
We drove to his parents on a Sunday night, a small suburb outside Philadelphia. As we left, Steven pulled me aside and thanked me for the work I do, explaining that there aren’t enough social workers in this country. [image: via Guian Bolisay on flickr] Carmel Jones is a 32 year old social worker living in Philadelphia.For example, you and your boyfriend may have run into your aunt at the supermarket and you introduced them so as not to be rude. And if your family is anything at all like mine, they will talk a lot.News will spread like wildfire that your aunt met your boyfriend before your parents did. “You must be Carmel,” she said, extending her arms out for a hug, “I’m Suzanne, Donny’s mom. I brought some wine,” I gestured, grabbing a wine bottle from my oversized purse. ” his mother exclaimed as she wrapped her arms around him.