I know that first dates can be nerve wrecking, and sometimes the way we calm our nerves is filling up the dead air space, but remember to breathe, and truly go in with the intention of getting to know this person. You probably don’t want to show your “cray” side just yet. No matter how much you want to choose the restaurant you “want” to go to, or tell your guy what he should eat because you know all the “good stuff” DON’T.Let him be the man and let go your need to control small details.That individual likes himself; she isn’t too critical of herself; and he accepts himself as-is and works on the parts of his personality or his […] Read more Dear Sara: When I’m dating, I really struggle with how to answer questions about my (lack of) relationship history.
Or they say or do something that falls outside of the realm […] Read more Despite the vast individual differences between the millions of men and women currently dating and looking for a partner, most people have the basic same questions about dating.
I want to be honest, but as someone in my 30s with little relationship history, I […] Read more Sometimes I wish that there was a site, kind of like Yelp, where I could check out a guy’s rating before I went out with him, or, let’s be honest, write my own.
I think I’d start with my college ex boyfriend, the one who told me we needed to talk and took me down […] Read more Everyone has a story about a “worst date ever.” Occasionally, you’ll hear a real doozy.
While how a person looks is important to some, it is not the most important characteristics for many others.
Having counseled countless couples and single men and women over the years, I have created a list of characteristics […] Read more If you’re not thrilled about your dating prospects lately, it’s easy to blame everyone and everything else: You’re not meeting enough people.