You can learn more details on my thoughts on this service in my article on How e Harmony Works.
No matter what service you choose, I hope my advice here will help you with your first messages.
Based on my experience, I think the above are good guidelines to improve your odds of getting the conversation going.
So what do you include in this short, introductory email?
It is also worth noting that most often discuss this from the point of view of a man contacting a woman, since that was my experience, but my hope is that the thoughts here are helpful to anyone.
So better to listen to your gut and break any “rules” (such as keeping the email short) when you think it would work to your favor.There are several reasons I’m for short first emails.With online dating, the first message can make or break your chances of a successful first date.With this type of profile, I always felt like simply asking them out on safe date in the first email is fine.There’s not too much to work with here aside from asking travel questions which, by looking at her profile, probably already happens in every email she receives. I know this looks like nothing but I’ve had success with these types of emails (my wife being the best example…although her profile was actually good!