But if he's shy, you could set the scene so that he feels comfortable making a move.
I want to put stipulations upon the visit, for instance, guests provide their own food, beverages, linens, etc., for their stay, but how? Don’t buy a dog together, an antique table together, or a couples’ membership to the zoo. Unless you’re just splitting the cost of dinner, keep purchases separate. Your date wants to get to know YOU, not that jerk who dumped you. Your first month of dating might turn into your last. It’s okay to have separate lives, especially this early on. Draw some careful boundaries for your burgeoning relationship. Related: Don’t ask him to reschedule his life for you. Don’t expect him to cancel poker night for your friend’s wine and cheese night. Let her brag to all of her coworkers about you for months before you make an appearance. In response, my friend invited her friend and two children to my parents' home for this trip.My friend turned to me, in front of her friend and others, and asked if it was OK that they join us.