Public displays of suggestion or bold suggestion, too quickly, will certainly put a Thai woman off-side and on guard.
Use restraint to start with so that you both can get understanding of each other.
Last thing that you will want to happen is for your Thai girl to be embarrassed talking about intimacy which can be an uncomfortable subject for any woman on a date.
Take it steady, take it easy, and understand the culture at a very granular level. You know, it doesn’t take any effort at all to meet and date woman for the first time in a club or a bar. There are so many beautiful places and it doesn’t take much for you to open up a tourist map and pick something that you can both explore too, Talk about and have some fun together which then opens up conversation and allows both of you to get to know each other better.
Take effort and time and pick the right place to take your thai lady on the first date And if I was a woman and our first date was at a bar, I would think you were a jerk. I’ve dated women from other cultures in the past myself.
Look around you in Thailand or on our dating site and you’ll instantly know that Thai women take high pride in their presentation and appearance and probably more so than western women.
And because Thai women are so conscientious, you’re also expected to be well shaved (facial I’m talking about here), well groomed and looking smart for the evening, or wherever you’ve happened to arrange for your date.