We all know to avoid people that appear insane or abusive and not select them as a dating partner.However, some individuals are better at hiding their personality and behavior abnormalities.At first, you will be assured that they will never direct the hostility and violence at you – but they are clearly letting you know that they have that ability and capability – and that it might come your way.Later, you fear challenging or confronting them – fearing that same temper and violence will be turned in your direction. Killing Your Self-Confidence “The Loser” repeatedly puts you down.It’s true that we can become infatuated with others quickly – but not make such unrealistic promises and have the future planned after three dates.
Psychologists usually treat the victims of “The Loser”, women or men who arrive at the office severely depressed with their self-confidence and self-esteem totally destroyed.
Normal, healthy individuals require a long process to develop a relationship because there is so much at stake.
Healthy individuals will wait for a lot of information before offering a commitment – not three weeks.
Very few relationships start on terms other than sweetness and politeness.
In the beginning, “the honeymoon” of the relationship, it’s difficult to determine what type of individual you are dating.