Women in their mid-20s to early 30s are prime for baby-making, but “younger men don’t have the ‘dad” gene in them until they get to be more established and mature,” says New York City-based matchmaker Janis Spindel.
“Being older, you’re more successful and established, while he’s still climbing the corporate ladder or even getting a career going,” she says.
They also point out that, even though you don't need to wear high heels and a dress on a first date you should still strive to look 'hot' and 'approachable' without being 'overdone' and avoid 'oversize, baggy clothes that make you look like an old woman who lives in a shoe.' Wilsner claims it's also a myth that most men marry high-maintenance bitches.
'A woman should be strong, independent, empowered and self-sufficient.
"I learned a lot while in Ireland (and France, Belgium) about romance and relationships, and you can read all about my adventures elsewhere (see: What Does Shifting Mean in Irish Slang, and Dating in Ireland).
First, I had to come up with a way to describe what I do for a living.