The myth of having her at “hello”A friend of mine is an intelligent, attractive writer in her late 30’s.She crafted her online dating profile complete with clever anecdotes about her interests, as well as quirky icebreakers.Do not send them long texts explaining your opinions or plans, or anything.
From there, keep your email short and to the point.That few minutes of embarrassment could lead to a lifetime of happiness, so give it your all. There’s something suspicious about a man who’s wearing a ball cap, bike helmet and cowboy hat in every photo. Not because of the man’s looks, but because of the man’s obvious embarrassment about his looks.If a guy doesn’t include one shot that shows his head, then it will appear as though he’s hiding something. Hiding what you think is a flaw can end up revealing your insecurity, and that’s just not attractive. Over the years that I’ve been a profile writer, I’ve seen countless online dating photos of men with their arms around other women, drinking with beach babes, and posing with half-naked showgirls.End it with a question that, again, mentions a subject that matters to her.That way you’ve provided her with an opportunity to easily reply. It’s akin to providing convenient steps to “convert” a customer.