Too bad you can't figure out what that reason is—every time you talk about it, his story changes. He's used to managing a house, family, and scheduling outings around many people's lives. His last marriage may not have worked, but that doesn't mean he didn't learn from it. And while he may have to share time with his ex, he's willing to do it so that he never misses a soccer game, dance recital, or first date.The longer you are with someone, you come to learn of their extended needs; or the needs that you never knew they had.If you’re in a relationship you can simply move on to the next candidate, but if you’re married; it’s just not that simple.
Some divorced men are anxious to get back into the dating scene, and others are having mixed feelings that could cause frustration.Back in the day, jumping into the dating waters post-divorce wasn't always the easiest (and usually involved one too many awkward set-ups from friends). But with the onslaught of dating apps, it's now all too easy (seriously, just swipe right..left). That one who, after three dates, asks you to pick up some toilet paper, plants his feet on you for a foot rub, and immediately starts slipping into the same homey habits he had with his ex. Sorry, but he can only fit you in every other Tuesday because his life is just so. Be careful if he seems over aggressive or verbally and/or physically abusive.Remember that even though he may be relieved, small things could still easily annoy him.